Watch this video to discover the simple solution to living with high self-esteem.
One of the best ways to improve your self-esteem, which is really what, when it’s improved, helps you from not being defensive, is to take on the behaviors of not being defensive. The next time someone gives you feedback say, “That’s interesting. Tell me more about that. How else can I improve that?” as opposed to, “But I did this and don’t you understand that?” Be the kind of person who has the behaviors of strong self-esteem and you will build your self-esteem. Eventually becoming defensive will fall away as a pattern and you will have a career that’s going in the right direction powerfully and quickly.