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Getting it Done—Winning the Execution Game

Wednesday, January 27th, 2010
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Execution is everything.  Plan all you want, dream all you can, then turn that key or you’ve accomplished nothing.  Execution is what separates those who merely have lofty ideas from those who end up winning the game. It’s about taking strategies and making sure they are implemented with power.

Creating a culture of execution is a leadership issue. It combines creating a “no-excuses, get-it-done” culture with the systems, processes, and accountabilities that ensure things are done consistently and done well.

But it’s also more than a leadership issue.  People at every level in an organization can get bogged down in planning and strategizing without ever getting off the pot.

It’s easy to guess which things in a company are measured and audited:  It’s the things that people actually DO and do well.  If you want something done with fairly strong consistency, set measurable benchmarks.

But don’t forget to put systems in place to see if the benchmarks are being met.  If a standard is measured in the forest, and no on is there to audit it—does it make a difference?  Not bloody likely.  Why should it?

You can’t monitor and audit every facet of your business, or you won’t have time to run the business.  So where does execution matter most?  It matters most in the critical moments I call Moments of Truth—the moments where execution can mean the difference between success and failure.

Moments of Truth are those critical times when a customer forms an impression of you, deciding whether your offerings and their standards see eye-to-eye.  Though they vary from industry to industry and business to business, every business has them.  Define them, create measurable goals and a way to assess progress, and GO.

Use weekly planning meetings in which each attendee declares focused results following a clean process and you will create magic. These meetings create the engine to keep people focused on doing the right things and getting results in the areas that matter. It also reveals the “stealth slackers”—those who are otherwise masterful at hiding and looking busy.  Got some of those?

Top performers don’t just stay busy—they know how to get the RIGHT things accomplished. Top performing leaders also know how to get their people focused on doing the right things, especially those things intimately tied to the Moments of Truth that can make or break a company.  They know that accepting no excuses from their team members means permitting no excuses from themselves as well.

For an organization to thrive in these highly competitive times, it is more critical than ever for leaders to build an environment where their word is law. Only by conveying that attitude can they expect others to be held to the same standard.

Miracles are supposed to happen, but they require a steadfast, ironclad system of execution and a leader who is committed to making the miracle happen.  So be the miracle!

Getting Back that First-Day Feeling

Friday, January 15th, 2010
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Remember your very first day on the job?  Your shoes had a shine like the tiles on the Space Shuttle and the crease in your slacks could have diced celery.  The air was somehow fresher, the birds chirpier.  You had been hired.  You’d been given a chance to excel, a chance to make a difference.

Now contrast that with this morning.

Most people who signed up for the Big Game end up making one compromise after another until they’ve resigned themselves to mediocrity.  It’s darned hard to keep that first-day buzz going. 

BUT…there’s no reason you can’t choose to recover a good measure of that first-day feeling, that striving for excellence, and put it to good use in the service of everyone whose lives you touch on a daily basis.

It’s all about making the choice to do it.

Have you ever met a two-year-old who wasn’t enthusiastic?  We come prepackaged with it.  And then…

What happens to us?

What happens is that we make a choice.  Some of us choose to make the effort to stay in touch with our inner enthusiasm.  Others find reasons to lose touch with it—boredom, responsibilities, challenges, fatigue.

But here’s the problem:  Enthusiasm is the lifeblood of all success.  Without it, nothing great happens.  If you choose to lose touch with your inner enthusiasm, you are choosing mediocrity.  It’s really that simple.

Sure, there are plenty of reasons to curb your enthusiasm.  But there are just as many reasons to find it again—to celebrate your incredible good fortune, and in the process, to make that fortune even better.

Start with the fact that you’re not dead yet, that you were born at all, that you have a job, and that compared to a lot of folks, you have a pretty darn good job.

Now take a close look at the circumstances of this good job you have.  Write down your five biggest complaints and spin them into positives.  For example, “My boss micromanages me” can be reframed as “My boss cares enough about me to step into my work when I need help.”
If you’ve truly committed to finding your first-day buzz again, you should be an awful lot closer to it now than you were ten minutes ago. 

All this rethinking and reframing has removed a HUGE energy drain from your life—one you were probably unaware of.  It takes massive amounts of energy to continually reinforce your own sense of victimhood.  Excellence is MUCH less expensive.  Now that you feel lucky instead, what on Earth are you going to do with all that energy?

How about playing the Big Game you signed up for?

What you’ve just filled yourself up with is a lion’s share of this precious thing called the human spirit, and the human spirit will not invest in mediocrity.  So play the meaningful, bighearted game you always dreamed of playing, and leave the mediocrity to others.

TGIM e-Zine: July 27, 2009

Monday, July 27th, 2009

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Is Your Word Your Bond?

Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009
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One of the absolute keys to a workplace that works is a level of honesty that encourages the truth when someone isn’t pulling his or her weight, candor between employees about each other’s efforts, and the straight stuff from everyone when it comes to feedback that can make a workplace improve.

When you agree to do something and then get hit with an obstacle, do you assume all bets are off? Or do you give yourself a moment to figure out how to get back on track because your integrity is at stake?

There’s no shortage of people who believe every promise is conditional on everything going right. “Yes, I know that was my quarterly goal, but the economy…”

“Yes, I know I said I’d finish that project, but I forgot that our family reunion was coming up that weekend, and I had to help plan the kids’ activities.”

“Sherri didn’t get her part of the report to me, so I wasn’t able to finish my part.”

Nothing will hold you back from success in life more than giving up when you hit a hurdle. (more…)

TGIM e-Zine: July 13, 2009

Monday, July 13th, 2009

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Issue 34 Topics Include: READ NOW

  • Values as Your True North
  • Values Check for Job Changers
  • Discover Your Impact and What it Really Could Be?

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Are You a Distance Runner—or a Hamster in a Wheel?

Friday, July 3rd, 2009

An old friend crossed my mind the other day.  Once in a blue moon we check in with each other, so I dropped her an email. She replied telling me why she hadn’t been in touch, then said,  “Well, I wish I had time to get together for lunch, but I’m a hamster on a wheel this week, and next.  Some day.”

Some day.  Riiiiiight.

We’d been going back and forth for over a year.  I scrolled down to our previous brief exchange, three months earlier.  Her last sentence said:  “Wish I could chat more, but I’m just slammed right now.”  Four months before that she said she was “completely over my head at the moment. Busy busy busy.”

I made a mental note to sit this girl down with a bottle of red and five words of advice:  STOP BEING SO DARN BUSY.

Oh, I knew what she would say.  Wouldn’t that be nice.  If only I could.  Fat chance. But the fact is, there’s a big difference between having a full workload and being SO DARN BUSY.  The first one is a fact of life.  The second is a mindset—and not a good one.

Close your eyes for a minute and picture meeting a friend on the street or a colleague in the hall.  Your friend or colleague asks how it’s going.  If you feel words like “swamped” or “overwhelmed” or “slammed” or “hectic” rising in your throat, STOP.  Don’t buy into the self-destructive mindset of busyness.  Find a way to sit calmly and happily before the full plate that life, thankfully, has a way of dishing up.

Here’s how:

1.   Stop talking about being overwhelmed. It only creates more overwhelm.  You must DECIDE to be in the flow and welcome the challenge with a “bring-it-on” attitude.  The first step in that journey is hearing the Henny Penny squawk in your head and squelching it before it can dictate your attitude.

2.    Take an evening or Saturday completely off. Don’t touch work or think about it.  No email, no voicemail, no “just checking” on a project.

3.    When back at it, make a list of the 5 key initiatives and the 5 key results for your job.

4.    Make sure you have an iron-clad, step-by-step plan to hit all targets to make those initiatives and results happen.

5.    Bring a plan to your boss outlining how you will make those happen and ask to be released from the busy work not attached those.

6.    Have your weekly plan in front of you at all times, listing the activities to make sure you hit all your weekly results and numbers.  Be massively accountable for RESULTS—not activities!

7.    Drop several of the key activities for the week into each day. Complete one before moving on to the next.

8.    Smile and DECIDE to enjoy it. It’s a choice between victimhood and living powerfully. YOU get to decide!

There’s a world of difference between working hard and “being busy.”  The hamster on the wheel is awfully busy.  But it’s only when we step off the wheel that we can see the absurdity of it and actually get something done, engaging life joyfully and bringing ourselves fully to our work.

Once you step off, you’ll NEVER go back.

Being Fully Present in our Lives and Work

Wednesday, July 1st, 2009
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Ellen Galinsky, author of Ask the Children— What America’s Children Really Think About Working Parents, asked children what they would change about how their parents’ work affects their lives.

She also asked the parents what they thought their kids would say. Fifty percent of parents predicted that the child’s top choice would be to have more time together.

Guess again.

In fact, only 10-15 percent of kids said they would like more time with their parents. Contrast this with the 34 percent of kids who said what they want most is for their parents to be less stressed. Only 2 percent of parents guessed that this would be their child’s highest priority.

It’s not more of our time that our kids want but rather our vivaciousness—to be fully alive and enthusiastic wherever we are at any moment. (more…)

TGIM e-Zine: June 22, 2009

Monday, June 22nd, 2009

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Issue 31 Topics Include: READ NOW

  • Life Happens… Then You Rock
  • Keeping an Eye on Your Commitments
  • PTBE: Permission to Be Extraordinary

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Deciding on Joy

Saturday, June 13th, 2009
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Some things are easy to fake. Interest, for example. Just nod randomly and say “Hmm, ya don’t say” every ten seconds while your sister describes every detail of her new all-goose-fat diet. Works like a charm. (The random nodding, not the diet.)

But enthusiasm—well, that’s another thing entirely. Enthusiasm is a really hard thing to fake.

That doesn’t mean it’s something you simply have or don’t have. It isn’t magically granted to some and not others. We’ve all spent some time being wildly joyful. Have you ever met a two-year-old who wasn’t?

Joyful enthusiasm is part of our original factory packaging. That two-year-old loves to get presents, sure, but she’d be just as happy playing with the wrapping paper for hours.

So then—what happens to us? We make a choice, that’s what. Some of us choose to continue to be in touch with our childlike enthusiasm, while others allow it to wither and go dormant.

Bad idea. Enthusiasm is as essential to life as food, water, and hot artichoke dip. (Hey, you’ve got your essentials, I’ve got mine.)

Enthusiasm is also the essence of success. Without it, all is mediocrity. Nothing great happens. That’s why one of the keys to a truly engaged and motivated workplace is enthusiasm. (more…)

An Attitude Worth Catching

Tuesday, June 9th, 2009
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Is today a good day or a bad day? It’s neither. Every day consists of hundreds of events and interactions. Some you’ll see as good, others as bad, still others as neutral. Every day is a complex stew of ups and downs and sidewayses.

Somebody asks how your day is going. Do you tally up the good, bad, and neutral things that have happened to see which is ahead? Of course not. Nobody does that. You take a gut check and DECIDE what kind of day it is.

In other words—YOU assign the meaning. Your attitude itself has more to do with your answer than that pile of data bits ever could. (more…)