Most of us live “reasonable” lives, looking at what we CAN do and using that as a guide to what we WILL do. Shoot for mediocrity and you’re guaranteed a bull’s-eye, every time. But a life worth living is about setting unreasonable goals, doing unreasonable things to make them happen, making unreasonable requests of people every day to stretch them to their undiscovered greatness.
Hey wait a minute, you say. Times are tough. The economy’s in the tank. Everyone is running for cover. My 401(k) is in flames! I can’t even count on that pension!
Whoa there. Deep breath, partner.
If mediocrity is a shallow moat in good times, it’s even less protection when times are tough. Aiming low and being “reasonable” doesn’t bring out the best of who you are. If you want to enliven your teammates, your kids, your friends, here’s a surefire way to do it: Make unreasonable requests of them. (more…)